Sunday, March 20, 2011
You don't have to say yes to everything....
I have a hard time saying no to people that need my help. I think that this can be a good quality and a bad quality. I guess the good quality would be that I genuinely care about people and the quality of work I do, however, the not so good quality is what happens to the people that should be on my priority list like my family. My poor husband is feeling like he is not a top priority in my life and that he gets put farther down the list as I try to make others priority. It has really hit home this week and I feel like I am meeting the ramifications from not putting my family first. I feel overwhelmed, I have expectations of myself and I need to figure out how I can exceed those expectations and still put my family first. It is a hard process!
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I think you need a vacation - maybe a girls weekend, to re-group and have a little time with friends and by yourself. That way you can come back re-freshed and ready to organize your family life. I feel like you do plenty of times and have found a quick get away is just what is needed to keep my relationship with the hubby alive and helps to de-stress when it comes to the kiddo's!
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ReplyDeleteI agree a vacation would be wonderful! Everyone needs a little time to themselves or with friends to make the quality of life better.
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